Sex in Cyberspace 

Introduction

First thing first; this book is Rated (R), so be forewarned before going any further! I softened this book up as much as possible, by just using the first and last letter of the word. If I would have deleted the word, the story would be meaningless. You are getting it the same way I received it; I did not correct the errors so the reader could see that these are actual messages that were sent to this young girl named Kay, without being edited; they are from people from around the world, so the messages are a bit rough, but for someone that does not know the language very well, they did pretty good of conveying their thoughts. I also wish to say that in no way shape or form, is this book intended to put anyone down, or single anyone out. I am a writer, I saw a story, and I wrote it. No one is perfect, myself included, I am also in this in book, so the reader can see that we all have our faults, and I am not writing about something I know nothing about, as I have been there and done that! Mine was getting involved, with a beautiful young girl, who was young enough to be my daughter. Was it wrong, or was it human nature, extreme loneliness, or looking for love in all the wrong places? It really makes no difference, as I am a grown man, and should have known better, but it is what it is, and I lost control over my actions, my better judgment, even though I did know better! We all do things that we know that we should not do, and we know better, but we do them anyway. At least I am man enough to own up to my bad judgment, and write about it. Ashamed, no! Human yes! She is gone now; I do not have a clue as to if she is alive, or dead? After a while, my feelings went from a sexual nature, to thinking of her as a daughter, and wanting to protect her, and yes that was very strange, but true. She came into my life for three years, made one helluva impression on me, and then she was gone from my life, as quickly as she came into it! It was just like losing a family member, when I lost contact with her. We all live and learn, I surely did, and it was oh so painful, and it was my fault because I did not think about what I was doing! This book is about my experiences on the social networking dating site, Tagged, and a game called Pets. This game was made to help get people to get to know one another; believe it or not, it works. They say that, 1 in 5 marriages are from people meeting one another, the easy way, playing games, on these Internet dating sites. This is the new wave of dating; instead of going to bars, and other places that you go to find a mate, which are not very safe anymore, if they ever were. You do it on the Internet now days, in the safety and privacy of your own home. Tagged has this set up, so that you can read anything and everything about the person that you are interested in, and then it is your choice, no pressure, as it is entirely up to you and that person, which I think is very cool, and a safe way to do it, and it does work, whatever you look like, it makes no difference, as there is someone out there for everybody! Whenever you have the good, you also have the bad and the ugly that goes with it. Tagged tries to weed out these predators, and scammers as well as they can, but just like any other network, they can only delete those people when they catch them. I am bringing to light some of the things that you have to be aware of when you get on these sites, and hopefully you won’t become a victim, as you will know what to look for and beware of. You have what they call scammers, who try various ways to get money, or personal information out of you. These people are very good at what they do; I almost got caught, matter of fact, I came really close. I had known this one person for over a year. Like I say, they are very slick at what they do, and you have to keep your guard up all of the time, so not to get sucked in! I have been around the block many times, and never did get sucked into something like this before, but I almost did! However, keep in mind that there are many good people on here to meet; I have met tons of them, and there is tons more I am going to meet! The book is basically about, conversations I have had, being what they call a faker. I was a beautiful young 21 year old bi-sexual female, who in less then four months received over 40,000 hits on her site, and she is about to break 83,000, from people from all over the world, at the present time. Also some very weird guys dressed up like women, which really freaked me out, because I thought they were females. (What goes around, comes around, LOL) What you read is what it is; I tried to tone it down some, by just using the first and last letter of the words, so it was not quite as bad. Bottom line, this is what is going on in the world today, like it or not, this is the way it is, they call it life! I say all through the book, “Each to his or her own,” as I am not here to judge anyone, just to tell a story. In the Pet’s game, you buy people with cash you have earned or bought. Believe it or not, this game does have a strategy to it, and once you learn how to play it, the fun begins. This game is very addictive, and once you start playing it, you are hooked, as it is so much fun it is hard to stop once you started. This is why I became a faker; you can have more then one account, you can have as many as you can keep up, which is far from easy, (believe this) and the more you can handle, the better you can play the game. Just like any other game, it is all about winning, and having fun doing it. The strategy behind this is, if you have more then one account, you can go to your other accounts and move your cash around to where ever you need the cash on your accounts that are not doing so well, as the cash is what it is all about; no cash, no game. Some of these Pets cost trillions to buy, the good ones that is. My first thought, as a female, was just to make the cash, but then it became very wild, and I was getting more emails then I could handle; it got to the point that I could not answer them all, as they were coming in too fast, and I couldn’t keep up with them. Some of the messages were so far out of hand, I could not believe it, nor could I put it in this book. I am a hard head, from the old school, and trying to think like a female, was so hard to do, to say the very least. But I did pull it off; only a couple of people guessed that I was really a man, the rest did not have a clue, and when they read this book, they won’t believe it, they won’t believe Kay is really a man, not a beautiful 21 year old sexy girl! Last, but surely not the least. I want all the people that have daughters that get on the Internet to pay close attention to what I am about to tell you. There were so many predators from all over the world that were trying to get this young girl, to come and live with them or for weekend sex parties and so on. They told her that they would take care of her, feed her, take her shopping and buy her anything, and basically give her anything she wanted. There were couples here in the states that offered to fly her to where they lived, so the man and his wife could have sex with her all weekend long, or how ever long she wanted to stay. It is a known fact that these predators get a naive girl to come to where they live, and in many cases that is the last thing their family ever hears from them. They are forced into prostitution in a foreign country, until they are of no more use, and then they are killed, and nobody cares; think about the shape the world is in today, it happens all of the time! Regardless of how old your daughters are, if they tell you that someone has offered them to come and visit them in another country, beware, as if they go, you may never see that daughter again! You can read the offers that she received in this book, and they are all true, and scary!

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 An Unbelievable Beginning

This autobiography and an ongoing saga. I was born in Virginia and raised in Washington D.C. and Prince Georges County, Maryland. This story is based on my life. I am sixty years old now, and I have done more than my fair share of drugs and hard-core partying, and kicking ass. Most of the names, times and places have been changed for obvious reasons. I slept on army cots most of my life, whether they were in my aunt’s basement laundry room, my cousin’s back porch way down in the boonies of Virginia, or whatever institution I was in at the time. I was in and out of institutions from the beginning of my early life. I guess I was hardheaded or at least as they say, “Hard to train,” or maybe it was because of someone else beside my family was raising me, who knows? In this story, you will read about why you should not abuse your children, and what happens if you do. You will read what a living hell is all about, and what evolves from having no control over your children, letting them basically run loose and raise themselves because of no parental control, or love. When you read these stories, you will sit back and probably say that there is no way that anybody in the world has been through this much in just sixty years of life. This is the first time that I have decided to sit down, and share my life with anyone because for one thing, it is far from what I am proud of; believe this. I am ashamed, as well as embarrassed! These events have often been so very painful to recall, events, or nightmares if you will; that I have tried all of my life to forget. I continue to fine-tune this story, which only reaches my fifteen years of life.

—Ronjon

 A Bumpy Ride

This is the sequel to my first book, An Unbelievable Beginning, which is based on the first fifteen years of my trials, and tribulations in dealing with life. This book picks up when my life really turns itself upside down, and goes from bad to worse. I was released from reform school after serving one and a half years, and went right back to committing petite crimes, which led to armed robberies and a nine year sentence in the big boy’s jail. After being incarcerated for three and a half years, in a very dangerously unhealthy jail, I learned what the word “Survival”, meant.  I understood what the word, “Violence”, stood for, as I witnessed it every day and night of the week. You could lose your life, as quick as a wink of the eye, and you always had to watch your back, no mater where you were! I was released into the world of sex, drugs and rock n’ roll in 1968. When I first went to jail, there were no drugs, and not really a lot of sex going in my life, but upon my release, I made up for lost time. After experimenting with drugs, I became a dealer, the sex was more abundant, than what I could have ever imagined, and I could do no wrong, and life was sweet. Unfortunately I had a lot of hate built up in me, form being in that hellhole of a jail for three and a half years, and I could not control my temper, which led to a few people getting the hell beat out of them. I had a major motor cycle gang looking all over the place for me, so they could kick my ass. I had two encounters with two virgins, which were mistakes, and as usual I was thinking with the wrong head. I had a buddy get shot six times, and take the gun away from the guy who shot him, and kick his ass. The drug seen became part of my life, and the Budweiser’s flowed every day, every night, as I had turned my life into one big party, which I would soon regret!

A Turbulent Downfall

This book is the sequel to, Book # 2, A Bumpy Ride. It picks up where Ron really starts to stretch out, as far as the sex, drugs, and rock n’ roll is concerned. This is the beginning of him getting in over his head, and one thing leads to another. His temper is so bad that he starts shooting and stabbing people, with absolutely no remorse, and the violence is taking a hold of him. His life is spinning out of control, and he know that it is only a matter of time before he returns to jail, but the drugs, orgies, and easy money, out weighed that factor. He is making so much money that he does not know what to do with it all. If he leaves it in his apartment and the cops kick down the door, they confiscate his money, if he puts it in the bank, and get busted, the cops confiscate it, so what does he do with all of the cash? He falls in love with the woman of his dreams, and cares for her so much, that he is contemplating going straight, as he knows that if he goes back to jail, he will surely lose her, and she is part of his life now, she is his soul mate. He has a good job as an electrician, and is making real good money, but the drug money is so easy to get, it blinds his better judgment, and the greed takes over his life. He gets hooked up with these Hippies, and starts doing LSD; he finds that these people live a life that is just the opposite of his, and the free love and the fine looking hippy chicks that he has to have sex with, to prove that he is not a cop. This is too much for him to understand, but he doesn’t care, he just loves the sex. The guy that he shoots is a man that is very well connected, and the repercussions may cost him his life, but he is young and dumb, and doesn’t care, as he feels invincible. It cost him and his partner a very lucrative drug business down at the beach, but he does not care, as he knows that he can make as much money as he wants, right where he lives. He is meeting a lot of people that he does not need to know, but it goes side by side with the drug business. Will his love for Bonnie, overpower his lust for the drug trade. Will he stop the dealing for her, and turn his life around, settle down and raise a family? Only time will tell, which is more important to him.

By Ronjon

Childhood
When Ronjon was very young, Josephine, his mother, was talked into enrolling him in Methodist boarding school with other children, who also were thrown away by their parents. There was no love in his young life, and he looked forward to death! Despite her good intentions she did not realize that, this only was the first step to him becoming institutionalized. His mother drank a fifth of Seagram's Seven daily, and Ronjon hated to be around her, and see her drunk all of the time, and this is why he did not want to stay in their apartment. She worked for the NSA, and how she kept that job was a miracle to say the least. Even though his mother sent him to institution after institution, Ronjon did not abandon his mother, or put her in a home when she could not take care of herself, and she died in his home, at eighty-three.

Ronjon's Horrible Accident
When Ronjon was eight years old, his mother withdrew him from the Methodist boarding school after a wagon accident that just about tore his right arm completely off. During the ride, he caught his upper arm on a sharp brick at the end of the alley, while trying to make a turn. In addition to bleeding heavily, he suffered a compound fracture and dislocated shoulder. Irresponsibly, the school sent him to the hospital in a taxi, which was frowned upon by the doctor's at the emergency room, they told her that if he lost his arm, they would bring charges against her, have her arrested. After his release from the hospital, he contracted gangrene, which landed him back in the hospital, and he almost lost that arm. After this event, relatives insisted that he be sent to military school, the second step to becoming institutionalized once again.

Public School
After moving to Langley Park, Maryland, young Ronjon was enrolled in public school; however, the abuse continued, as he was a loner, and always fighting with the other students. School was the last place that he wanted to be, so he started skipping school, which eventually landed him in reform school twice, and on the road to becoming institutionalized.

A Troubled Teen:Ronjon started a paper route with his friend, during the early morning hours. Unfortunately, his friend had convinced him to start stealing during this time. The two of them started breaking into coin operated washers and dryers. Then nothing was safe, schools, Church's, and any place they could steal money from. Eventually after staying out all night long, every night, he could not get up to go to school, which landed him back in reform school again, for a significant amount of time for his second incarceration. His life was starting to design him into a criminal, and there was no doubt about it. Stealing was all that he knew, until he he got into drugs, and that was his main downfall, and that put the finishing touches on his miserable life.

A Life of Crime
At the age of 13, Ronjon acquired a double-barrel shotgun after being confronted by a gang, and having the hell beat out of him, and his friend was almost stabbed to death. Ron and his friend did nothing to provoke this attack, other than being at the wrong place, at the wrong time. He and his friend then found a party of which was at one of the gang members home, and unloaded the the double barrel shotgun on the bewildered, and frightened guests. When he was 17, Ronjon's actions caught up with him. The courts waived jurisdiction on him, and he was sent to adult jail for armed robbery, and receiving stolen goods, where he stayed for the next three and a half years of his young life. The funny part of i was, he got more time for the receiving stolen goods, than he got for the three armed robberies. He now was institutionalized beyond any doubt, and that was for sure. When he got out of jail, he felt like time had passed him by, like he had been caught up in a time warp, or something. This was a new life for him, as there was no hippies, mini-skirts, long hair, most of all drugs, which absolutely ruined his life. The drug scene, and dealing of dealing drugs, cost him his beautiful wife and child, that he never saw again for 35 years. It landed him back in jail, where he wasted another three years of his life, which completed his institutionalization. Maybe this time he will learn that if you fail to get it together, you are going to spend a lot of your life behind bars!

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